San Jose and other things

First and foremost: A big welcome to Joshua to the 30 Club. Yep, today is Joshua’s 30th birthday. This morning, the kids sang happy birthday to him then we headed off to Mass.

For the first time in a long time, we were LATE for Mass.  We arrived at the end of the opening prayer. I blame Father Wagner, he must have started Mass early and talked really fast! It was nice to go to Mass together today. We haven’t really gone to daily Mass together since C was born. It just seemed to cold to take her out. When we lived near the church, it didn’t seem like that big of deal to wrap the baby in a blanket or three and heading to Mass. Now, it just seems cruel to put the baby in the cold car seat then in the cold car for a cold 5 minute ride to Mass. Joshua goes each day, or I go but we seldom go together. It was nice this morning.

Today is also the day Joshua and I met six years ago. He was at the bar, writing down the words to that great Burt Bacharach song “Do you know the way to San Jose”. Father Avram introduced us. Of course, neither of us knew what was in store for us. God is do good.

Edited to add: When I said bar, it was the theology bar at the PCJ.

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Wishing for warm weather

This past week we were blessed with near sixty degree weather. It was very nice and then it got cold again. The cold was ushered in by, get this, a cold front. There were servere thunderstorm warnings for all over the area. We had some wind and about three flahes of lightening. Bummer. I LOVE thunderstorms.

A few years ago, a dear friend of mine, Rick, passed away at the young age of 40. Rick worked as a researcher at the Byrd Polar Institute at Ohio State University. For a few weeks each spring, he went storm chasing. Yes, just like you see on television. We were supposed to go storm chasing sometime, but he died before we could get a chance. (And no, he did not die chasing storms.) Now, whenever we have svr wx, I think of him and have a great urge to go storm chasing.

It was nice to take the kids out with just a light jacket on. So much easier to get out of the house. Speaking of getting out of the house, Johsua jumped the Mitsubishi and it runs again. Praise God that a dead battery is all the problem was. So now we don’t have to share a car. It wasn’t that big of a deal, except on Sundays when he would have to stay after mass to teach Confirmation Class and I needed to pick him up just an hour and a half after getting home. For some reason, that was just hard to do. Now today, he will drive himself home! Also, it saves wear and tear on the van. For some reason, because it is new to us, I don’t want to put a bunch of miles on it.

I think this is probably going to be long blog post.

Joshua turns 30 tomorrow. He doesn’t like to have a big deal made about his birthday, so we aren’t going to do much. I will create some yummy meal from food we have in the kitchen and go from there. I might make a cake, but I don’t know. I have bananas that need to be used up, so I just might make banana bread.

We are hoping to buy a house soon, so I am starting to box up things we don’t use much (like dishes and bathroom items). Last night I boxed up our wine glasses, so we need to buy a house soon!

I have discovered NCIS. Last weekend when J was in NYC, I was bored and found NCIS on cbs.com, so I started watching it. I really liked it. So now I watch season six on line then we borrow season one from the library. The library charges $1 per DVD for certain DVDs, and in our desire to save money, that dollar is a lot of money. I guess it is a good thing that they only have season one.

Something else I have been interested in is the economy lately. I have become fascinated with how this all came about. We try our best to live debt free and for the most part do pretty well. We don’t make much money. (We actually make so little that our government pays us, really) However, we try our best to live within our means. We have internet, yes, because of Joshua’s business. We don’t have cable though. We have a newer car, but that was because the little green car needed some major fixing. We shopped for the best deal around and got it. We eat well, but don’t go out to eat often, if ever. For grocery shopping, I go to Aldi for our canned goods and at Kroger, I buy mostly manager special things. (I only buy meat if it is on sale or manager special). With that being said, we get by just fine. Our kids have clothes and are nicely dressed. Our bills are paid on time each month.

I don’t understand how it is that people who make twice as much as we do or even more, have a hard time paying their bills. If you can’t afford something, don’t buy it. New cars aren’t a necessity. Television is not a necessity. Going out to eat, while nice once in a while, is not a necessity. Buying a house? Buy what you can afford! Really.

Off my soapbox now!

Have a great Sunday!

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God’s Mercy

http://www.cnn.com/2009/US/02/06/florida.abortion/index.html?iref=mpstoryview

I wouldn’t recommend reading this if you are feeling emotional. It is about an “abortion doctor” in FL who lost his license in a live birth abortion case. After reading it, the second coming can’t come soon enough. I am amazed that God has not shown his wrath to us. If anything, this is showing that He is so full of mercy towards us poor wretched sinners.

Abortion is has not offered a “choice” for women, it has created a prison. If you think about it, a woman who becomes pregnant and the time is not “right” or the conditions are not “ideal” she is “encouraged” to have an abortion. The pressure is intense. The reasons tossed out “You won’t be able to finish school”; “You don’t want your parents to find out”; “I will not support this baby”; “Your child will be a criminal because his father is”. The list could go on.

So then a woman ends up at an abortion clinic to “remove” the “problem”. Then we get cases like the one linked above.
Lord Jesus, have mercy on us.

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