Melt My Heart

“Mama, did God make me to give you flowers? Because I like to give you flowers”.  – Karol Jozef (5)

Last night he was getting ready for bed and came to give me a hug and kiss. After hugging me, he asked me if I I had a baby in my belly. When I told him no, his face got a little sad, the he brightened up and asked for a baby. When I asked him if that would make him happy, he said that it would and he said lots of babies would make him happy.

And it is true. That kid is all over babies like white on rice. This weekend we had dinner at the house of a friend who just recently had a baby. Karol hovered around that baby like nothin’. He was in heaven when he was allowed to hold the wee guy.

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We are getting a little bit of rain today.

 

Front yard, no we do not have a pond or a fountain in our front yard, usually.

This is right outside the back door. The goldfish pond is not currently being used so it is empty. The pool had just a week bit of water in it this morning, just a wee bit.

 

 

The storm blew up this afternoon and has been going on for about an hour now. For a while I could not see more than an 1/8 of a mile, but now it is clearing up a bit.  We lost power last night, so I got dinner made as soon as I saw the clouds coming in.  The lightning has been pretty close but we haven’t lost power yet! The thunder is amazing, I do wish I could share it with you all.

 

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{Pretty, happy, funny, real}

~ Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life ~
Every Thursday, at Like Mother, Like Daughter!

{pretty}

I posted yesterday about the dress I bought from eShakti. Here are pictures of it, pardon the wrinkles, I have not had a chance to iron it yet.

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Here is an up close of the embroidery.

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And the tag “custom”! That is so cool.

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{happy}

Our back yard had a fig tree and it is full of yummy figs. Caecilia and our little friend, Vincent love these.

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Since there are so many of them, we are going to turn them in to jam and put them up.  We will take some of them when we go on vacation next month to give to friends and family. (You’ve been warned)

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No, we won’t be using all those jars for the jams we also have a huge bucket of yummy honey that we want to share with friends too. We bought this five gallon bucket last fall at you pick citrus stand in Florida.  It is the best honey I have ever hand and aside from bing filtered, nothing else has been done to it! So I will put some of the honey in to those jars to give away also.

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{funny}

Benedict is our funny boy, here is some proof of that.

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He’s telling you all about the table and his pacifier…

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…and waving his arms a million miles an hour…

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…and offering to share.

{real}

With a heat index of 96 at 10:00 am, this is how we spend part of our days. The kids went out for a half hour after breakfast before the gnats and the heat chased them in.

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No, these aren’t all mine, we have two kids on loan for the week.

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A New Dress

I have been wanting to post about my new dress. I have been stalking eShakti.com for a few close to a year now, but did not make a purchase. First it was because I was pregnant with Benedict, then the sale of our house fell through, then we sold the house, but I was dealing with post-pregnancy body issues and finally, when things seemed to even out, I just felt guilty about purchasing an article of clothing which cost more than $10, so I put it off.

I really liked the things I saw at eShakti, party because there were many classic items, but also because you could customize your dress for a mere $7.50. Pick out a dress then send them your measurements, the length you want,  how tall you are, the sleeve type and neckline type and they will make your dress for you. All for $7.50, plus the cost of the dress. This was key for me, as dressing modestly is very important. I am also plus sized (there I said it) and have what I would say is a strange body shape, so clothes I buy to fit me around the middle just hang and droop around my bustline and neck area.

A few weeks ago, I was stalking around on the site again and found their overstock section with a dress my size, so I sent Joshua a message and asked him what he thought. He gave the go ahead*, so I started to order it, until I discovered that when you sign up for an account, you get a $20 gift certificate toward your first purchase. Well, heck with that, I decided to order a dress and have it customized (free with your first dress!)

Altered with 3/4 length sleeves and mid calf length skirt. (picture from eShakti.com)

 

I ordered my dress on 23 June, in the evening and it arrived on 5 July, pretty darn good turn around, if you ask me. It would  have arrived on the 4th if it weren’t a holiday.When my dress arrived, we were eating dinner, so I set the box aside and managed to control the impulse to run and open it until after dinner was cleaned up, prayers were said and the kids were in bed.

When I opened the box, I was not disappointed. The dress was beautiful. The fabric was a nice weight, the embroidery was done by hand, the seems were well put together and the customizations were done exactly as I requested. After the inspection stage,  I moved on to the try on stage. Wow. Just wow. I wish I had a picture to share with you all, as I did have Joshua take a few, but I am waiting for the new hard drive to arrive still, so you will have to wait. Also, those pictures were taken at 930 in the evening, with bad lighting and my hair was awful. But I will tell you, I told Joshua that eShakti would be my go to place for dresses.

I woke up the next morning and was checking my email from my phone, while in bed, I saw that I had received another $20 gift certificate. I nudged a half awake Joshua and said “It’s like drugs, drugs I tell you!”. They are trying to get me in with their $20 gift certificates and well, it worked. I had another dress picked out, so I figured I would use it to buy that dress.

Altered but adding elbow length sleeves and mid calf length skirt (picture from eShakti.com)

 

In the mean time, I had emailed the nice lady at eShakti who was keeping me posted on the shipping of the first dress to let her know it had arrived and that I really liked it. In turn, she hooked me up with another gift certificate for another $20 off. Awesome. I soon discovered that the gift certificates could not be used together, so that meant another dress. Oh, darn.

Altered with elbow length sleeves and mid calf skirt (picture from eShakti.com)

 

 

And, no, just so you know, I didn’t just buy the dresses because they were sending me these gift certificates. I had been in the market for some new dresses. Plus, we are heading to a big shin-dig wedding in a month, and a new dress would be nice for that too. Now, I just have to decide which one to wear.

I promise to post pictures as soon as I get the dresses and the new hard drive is installed!

 

*no, Joshua does not have to give me permission to buy things, but sometimes he does encourage me to do so or nudges me to buy something for myself.

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{pretty, happy, funny real} Margaret and St. Maria Goretti

I am back to joining up with Leila over at Like Mother, Like Daughter for {pretty, happy, funny, real} this week.

Yesterday was the feast day of St. Maria Goretti and we made cupcakes* to celebrate. I will tell you that we did take more pictures and I did have many more edited and “saved” when I discovered that they were not actually saving. Turns out we need more space added to our ran out of space on our hard drive**. Sad. So here you go with, {funny, real}.

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My Margaret is ever the ham.

 

 

 

{real}

Yes, Margaret likes milk and cupcakes. Gotta have every last drop and morsel!  She’s showing off her real(ly) classy table manners.

 

 

 

 

*for the record, because I know you all want to know, the cupcakes were white (made with coconut milk!) and had red frosting, representing purity and martyrdom.

**my editor and the person in charge of making sure all my computer speak is correct, made me change, er fix,  that sentence.

 

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Too Quick for a Picture

Today, Benedict stood on his own for a few seconds. By stood on his own, I mean stood up from a sitting position in the middle of the floor, with no help at all! It only lasted a few seconds, but it happened.  I have also been watching him attempt to take steps on his own too. He is cruising the furniture like nothin’ so I imagine walking on his own will happen soon.

He also has adapted a new crawling style. Yesterday, he got up on all fours (hands and feet) and crawled across the floor like that. In the morning, he was pretty miserable during Mass and had to be taken out. He just wanted to be held and whined if I tried to set him down. When we got home, we discovered a fifth tooth! Where did Baby Benedict go?

Maybe he will stand tall on his own soon and I could get some pictures for you all!

 

 

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End of Week Catch Up

I have had a few things I wanted to post about this week, but I have been dealing with a mean case of writer’s block, so here is a quick update, in bullet points.

*First Grade! We started first grade with Karol through Kolbe Academy. He is doing a great job with it too! Not bragging here, but he is beyond awesome with reading, so I really should have gotten the second grade program for reading. That is the beauty of homeschooling though, working with each child’s skills. He got 100% on his first spelling test (a, hat, cat, fat, that, man, has) without breaking a sweat. He does not like to do math and draws it out. He knows what he is doing, he just does not like to sit for the time it takes to do the work.

I have to say that I really like the Kolbe format. They provide the lesson plans with day to day instructions on what to do, but they stress that parents should do what works best for them.  They also provide support via forums and email as well as the phone, so if I ever get stuck, I have a place to turn to.

*Our a/c went out sometime during the night. I woke up to a hot and humid house and it was NOT pleasant. We called a place in town and they had a guy out in about an hour! It was a minor repair and he was done within an hour. Now the house is nice and cool again.

*We met Joshua for Mass today and went to lunch together. I had missed the message from him saying that he wanted to go to lunch after Mass, so that was a nice surprise. I was just planning on going to Zaxby’s and getting something from the drive-thru, but we ended up going to a Hibachi place and enjoyed a nice, quick lunch together. Margaret used chopsticks today and did a pretty good job! As a result of us going to have a late lunch, I am not hungry at all. I think we just might have snacks for dinner tonight and I will make my planned dinner tomorrow night.

*This morning I learned that Caecilia can count to 15. I was practicing counting with Margaret and Caecilia took over! Smart girl. She also sings “Tomorrow, Tomorrow, I wove you, Tomorrow.”

*A while back I posted about our lack of rain, so let me give you an update. In the month of June, the average rainfall for our part of Georgia is 4.49 inches. We ended up with 4.18 for the month. That isn’t bad. Our lawn is actually growing now and the fields are nice and green again. The only thing that is not nice is the fact that the humidity is up again. Boo.

*This morning I booked the tickets for Joshua and Karol’s up coming trip to Italy. Karol’s passport should be arriving next week also. They are flying out of Orlando as it is much cheaper than frying from the nearby regional airport or driving up to Atlanta. I am interested to see how things are around here without Karol.

*Did I tell you that the local Piggly Wiggly, carries Sparkman’s butter? Local, hormone free butter at the same price as store brand butter of unknown sources!  Hooray. We are also closer to the dairy too at our new house, so I smell a field trip.

*Benedict is down to one nap a day. This isn’t that big a deal as he does not do much to get in trouble when he awake. But speaking of the little guy, he does need a diaper change, so I should wrap things up. Have a great weekend.

 

 

 

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Corpus Christi, House Blessing and Roadkill Cabbage

Sunday was a great day! The day began with Mass, at which, we celebrated the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ. Mass being the Holy Sacrifice and the source and summit of our the faith, was the best part of the day, as it should be. The rest of the day was just icing on the cake, but it made for great memories!

I said on my faceb,ok that Sunday was the best day since Mothers Day 2009. A friend asked what happed then, so I shall start there and move forward. That was the first time that we hosted a gathering at our house in Marion and used the front porch for dinner. Joshua had bought a string of lights to hang up and I moved the dining room table out there to and set the table for our guests. There was wine, I think, steak, I know, and some of the dumbest things slipping out of the mouth of two of the women there. One of the comments actually made it to the quote section of my friend’s Fb page:

“I have Russian Vodka; from Russia.” —Beth F on Mother’s Day 2009.

We also had a conversation about the biggest truck stop in the world. I know I have been there once or twice, but I do not recall the large semi truck they have suspended there. Someone at the table thought that was suspended by a rope from space, or something. Would that someone want to chime in here?

I guess you had to be there, but I know one of the people who was there reads this blog and is probably at home, rolling on the floor laughing.

So fast forward just over two years. Yes, there has been lots of fun in the past two years, but nothing like Sunday.

This past Sunday was, in addition to the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ, was also the day of our house blessing. We have only lived here for a year, but have managed to make a few friends. We hosted about 20 adults and a herd of young children (the youngest being 8 days old).

Friends started arriving around 3 pm and we were mostly ready. Father was a bit late, so we sat around visiting until he arrived. (Note to anyone coming to our house, do not use GPS to get here, it will take you down a road that is not really a road for quite a while). Once he arrived, we had the blessing of the house then on to the food.  More food then we could eat, but it was so good.

The conversation was even better. One of the couples who came are new to our parish (and new parents too!) and it turns out the wife and her family are very good friends with Fr. Hayes, OP, the priest who prepared me for Confirmation in 2003! It also turns out that she knows a friend of mine via a friend of hers. We were playing six degrees of separation, Catholic-Style!

Her husband introduced us to a new term “Roadkill Cabbage”. As I have mentioned before, we are surrounded by produce farms. Across the street from us are cucumbers. Watermelons, cantaloupes, summer squash and cabbage are down the road and around the corner. From time to time, various produce is found on the side of the road, having fallen off of the truck.  Those are known as “Roadkill Produce”. Michael, the young man who introduced us to the term, said that a coworker of his brought in some cabbage that had fallen off a the truck and once the outer layers were peeled off, it was really good. (and it lasted a long long time!). Another guest, confirmed this and said that he had gotten roadkill cantaloupes too. That right there, you can’t make up.

In addition to the roadkill produce, we talked about the Theology of the Body, Confession, Vocations, the number of Anglo families in our parish (40), Dr. Alice von Hildebrand and a host of other things, all while enjoying great food! When they all left, Joshua and I sat down for a bit and I said “I feel smarter after all those conversations” (especially the roadkill produce one, don’tcha know).

After writing this down, I think, wow, how was this such a great day? Really, I think it just is more that, here we are in the middle of Mission country, with very few Catholics and we have managed to meet so many of them!

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