You are Not an Animal

Today, while researching one thing, I came across this wonderful gem of a homily. It is from 2002, but as the Church is timeless, so is this homily.

You Are Not an Animal

by Father Daniel J. Mahan

Stewardship begins in one’s youth, when the good habits of self-giving, generosity, and responsibility are being formed.  Contrary to popular opinion, our young people are not “animals.”  They are loved by the Lord who never stops calling them to the good life.

For the most part, Jesus ministered to His own people, the people of Israel.  Only occasionally did He minister to the Gentiles, those who were not Jewish.  Today’s Gospel describes such an occasion.[1]

When Jesus ministers to this woman of the region of Tyre and Sidon, He anticipates the objections of His apostles:  “It is not fair to take the children’s bread and throw it to the dogs.”[2] You see, many of the Jewish people of Jesus’ day spoke with great contempt for the Gentiles.  They were called swine or dogs, animals certainly not deserving of the dignity that is due to human beings.

It seems that down through the ages this has been our unfortunate legacy: to regard those people different from ourselves as being less than deserving of human dignity.  It is how slave holders of the South regarded people of color.  It is how the Nazis regarded the Jews.  It is how some Israelis and some Palestinians regard each other.   It is how some regard an undesired child in the womb — as an animal, or even less than an animal,  undeserving of the rights and respect that is due every human person.

Every human person is created in the image and likeness of God,[3] created with an eternal soul, created with the capacity to know, love, and serve God.

Jesus recognizes the dignity of the woman whom He encounters in today’s Gospel.  He uses the occasion to teach His disciples and to teach us that no human being is ever outside the care and mercy of God, no human being is ever to be treated as less than a child of God.

And yet, this is what we do.  We must remind others and even ourselves of our God-given dignity.  Unfortunately, I hear frequently just the opposite in regard to our young people. Yes, our young people, even the ones sitting among us today. “Animals,” they are sometimes considered.  (Perhaps some parents are thinking of their teenagers’ rooms right now and are nodding their heads in total agreement!)  But that laid aside, what I hear said of our young people is that they are incapable of controlling themselves and making sound moral decisions in regard to the Sixth and Ninth Commandments.[4]

Some parents believe this of their own children, so much so that they arm their teenagers with pills, shots, and devices to spare them of the consequences of their lack of control.   They fail to consider that there’s not a device or pill in the world that can spare a young person from a broken heart or the shame of sexual exploitation. “They are just not able to control their hormones,” it is said.  “They are slaves to their passions.”

What an awful thing to say of our young people, to contend that they are incapable of making morally sound judgments, that they are just like animals in heat.

Turn on the television, especially to MTV, and this is exactly what is being said. Our young people are being encouraged to: “Give in to your hormones.  You can’t control them anyway, so you might as well enjoy the wild life.  You might as well live like ‘wildlife’ during your teens and early twenties.   Party like an animal.”

What a shame.  The young people I know are capable of so much more than that.  The young people I know are sharpening their minds by taking difficult classes in school.  They are improving their self-control by disciplining their bodies in sports.  They are showing great responsibility in their jobs and are helping out at home. They are good stewards.  They are opening their hearts to God and to our Church and listening with rapt attention to our 82 year-old Holy Father, who has an amazing ability to connect with young people, in spite of his advancing years and physical limitations.[5]

Our young people are not animals.  They are human beings who possess eternal souls and who are capable of exercising their free will to choose what is good and noble and holy and true. They have recourse to the sacraments of the Church, especially the Holy Eucharist, to strengthen them in body, mind, and soul. They have recourse to the Sacrament of Penance, a sacrament in which a person finds forgiveness of sins and the grace of God that is necessary to make progress in the virtues and to improve one’s ability to make good moral decisions.

Animals?  Out of control? Slaves to their passions?   To be certain, some of our young people act as if that were the case.   In fact, some who are old enough to know better act as if that were the case as well.  But a person who considers our young people to be animals has things very, very wrong.  Each of us has been redeemed by the blood of the Lord. Each of us is considered so dear to the Lord Jesus that He would die to accomplish our redemption, the forgiveness of our sins.  Each of us is connected to the Lord Jesus in a profound and irrevocable way,[7] so much so that the Lord’s grace makes it possible for us to rise above our human weakness and limitations and to live honorably, as children of the light.[8]

Young people, (and others), you know the commandments.  You know the consequences of sin.  You know that sin is a path that you don’t want to follow.   Others may tell you that you cannot resist the urge to sin.   I tell you that I believe in you.  You are capable of so much good.   Stay close to Jesus, stay close to the sacraments, and you will find the grace you need to stay on the path that leads to heaven.   “Resist the devil and he will flee from you.  Draw near to God and he will draw near to you.”[9] You are not animals.   You are children of God.

Father Daniel J. Mahan

X The Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time (A)

August 18, 2002


[1] Matthew 15: 21-28. [2] Matthew 15:26. [3] Cf. Genesis 1:26,27. [4] You shall not commit adultery.  You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife. [5] In this homily written in August 2002, I refer to Pope John Paul II, who died on April 2, 2005, just prior to the publication of this  manuscript. [6] Cf. Philippians 4:8. [7] Cf. Romans 11:29. [8] Cf. Ephesians 5:8; 1 Thessalonians 5:5; 1 John 1:5-7. [9] James 4:7,8.

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Simple Prayer Request

Good afternoon all! I was wondering if you could perhaps, offer a little prayer for the Facefamily. Nothing major, nothing bad, just a discernment issue that we are working through. Thanks!

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Changes….

I had been thinking of changing my blog for a while and seeing Anne’s change inspired me to follow through.  The only thing I do not like about this theme is that it does not have a log in section for me, so I have to change my bookmark to the admin log in and not just go straight to my blog.

Speaking of changes, I think I am going to hem all the curtains upstairs so that they do not touch the floor, or hang much below the window. We bought them when we first moved back to Ohio and they worked at the first place we lived and they work here too, but I think shorter would be better. That is mainly because I bought another set of the same curtains for the kids’ room as we only had one panel on each window. However, the new set is shorter than the other set and the shorter look better. Then I thought, what if I did that for all the curtains in the house? I will start during nap time. (Pray that they take naps!)

**Update, I cut myself while attempting to trim a piece of thread. Without examining the damage, I called Joshua to have him come home and help me. I am really blessed that he is able to do that for me. It was just a little cut but he didn’t make fun of me, yet. Now I have to finish hemming, wish me luck!**

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Sunday, Sunday….

Yesterday, we finished the kids’ room and moved them back in. The project that began in August and should have been a week long was not! It would have been had there not been so much prep work to do prior to painting. Alas, now it is done and I am thrilled. My plans for the paint job changed and now it is a simple blue with a light blue color on the trim.

We put all the kids in there and plan on working on the pink room a little at a time and it will take MUCH longer as EVERYTHING is painted pink, the outlets, the heat registers (oh and not the kind that you can pick up for a few dollars at Menards, but an old fashioned one :(), parts of the ceiling, parts of the doors, part of the carpet, you get the point. Never give a 13 year old a can of paint and say “go for it”.

This morning, K did not wake up with the rest of the kids, highly unusual. We sent M in to wake him up and he said he was still tired. I knew something was up but he was not feverish, so we told him he had to get up. Two minutes later, he puked. Joshua took M to Mass here at our parish and I will go to the parish in the town south of us later. Today is First Communion Sunday at our parish. The 11 am mass is usually a zoo anyway, so I will gladly drive to Delaware for mass.

I cleaned up the kitchen and washed a load of laundry in the mean time. K took a nap on the recliner and now is watching a dinosaur documentary. C is laying contently on my lap too, which is nice since she is teething and a crabby patty about it.  I hope to stuff and roast a chicken this afternoon for our dinner, stuffing sounds so good right now.

While I have you, would you mind saying a few prayers for our dear friend and K’s Godmother, Nan? She had surgery on her shunt (in her brain)  on Friday and there may have been complications. Please pray for this dear, holy woman. (though she would make me removed that last line if she saw it). Thanks!

Happy Sunday, Everyone. I hope all the teething babies are happy today and that anyone with puking kids gets a break!

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The Feast of St. George

Today we went to the wonderful Y family house for a Feast of St George Party. It was graciously hosted and the kids had a great time. They got to slay the dragon and for K, that was the best part! These pictures were taken at our church before we headed to the party. (I needed Papa’s help pinning the cape and wimple on the kids…plus we showed them off!)

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Playdates are really just for the mothers.

Today we had a playdate at our house. I must say, I much prefer hosting than attending. Sure, there is the mess to clean at the end of the day, but I do not feel like I have to watch my kids constantly and I can just enjoy the visit with my friends. (Not that my friends’ houses are not comfortable, but I am so afraid that my kids will destroy something that I tend to hover over them and ignore my friends.)

Two of my friends came with their children, a total of five in all, four girls and a boy to add to our mix. One of the girls declared that she and M were friends. It was too cute. M does not have many chances to hang out with girls her age, so it is nice to see her playing with other girls. K took to the only other boy and they played together. In all, we only had a few tears but no fights, great success.

Of course, play dates are really just excuses for the mothers to get together. It is always wonderful to be able to talk to another adult and another like minded mother who does not think I am crazy for, well,  for being Catholic.

The rest of the week is full too. We are going to a St. George Party on Friday. I am working on the Knight and Princess outfit for the kids. We have watched “Sword in the Stone” a few times recently and K is obsessed with getting to be a knight, so he is very excited. J even fashioned him a sword out of cardboard and duct tape. M is excited to be a princess and has been very good at letting me try the dress on her. (I will post pictures of the completed project, soon.)

Happy Wednesday!

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4th Degree

This past weekend, Joshua became a 4th Degree in the Knights of Columbus. He is forever to be  known as Sir Knight Joshua and I am Lady Beth. While I didn’t go out and buy a new dress for the occasion, (mainly because I did not want to spend the money on a maternity formal gown) J did get a tux. (Here’s an FYI, tuxes aren’t that expensive, $40 more than renting).

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This is a picture of Joshua before the Exemplification (the part where he becomes a 4th Degree Knight) so his baldric (the sash looking thing) is not across his chest yet, that happened during the ceremony. Most people have asked where his cape and funny hat are. Those are for the men in the color guard along with a sword and not a required part of the 4th degree. They are also costly, so perhaps next year.

The men and women of the 4th degree are all very warm and welcoming. I was a bit afraid that I would have no one to talk to while he was off doing his thing, but that was not the case. The new Ladies were treated to a wonderful lunch and conversation and were welcomed warmly in to the 4th degree family.

After the 4th degree Exemplification (done in private but not “private” like say the Masons) we gathered together and attended Mass then we had a great great dinner. Who ever thought up the idea to put spinach in the mashed potatoes, whip them, then put them in a pastry bag to beautify the presentation?

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Garage Down!

Yes! The day I have been waiting for since shortly after we signed our mortgage, the garage is no more. J’s brothers came out late Monday night and were up bright and early on Tuesday taking things down. It went pretty fast, but the guys were sore by the end of the day. I am thankful that it is down. It was such an eyesore and not useful for much of anything. Our neighbors seem to be pretty happy too. Hopefully the garage being down will hide the fact that our front porch really needs to be painted.

The first two pictures show the damage inside the garage. It looks like it sprung a leak at some point, with the prior owner, and it was never fixed. Some of the blocks in the foundation turned to dust at the touch, scary! As you can see in the bottom shot (even though it is a bit dark) the back yard is opened up a lot more. From my kitchen window, you can see the whole back yard, so I will not forget the garden this year (hopefully!)

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