My Uncle Mike did go in for surgery on the 21st of November, to have his lung removed. The doctor ended up not removing the lung, saying the my uncle’s heart would not have been able to handle the surgery.  The good news is that the cancer has not spread at all, just in that one spot in his lung. They will begin a course of chemo and radiation soon.

 

From my Aunt Deb:

 

My husbands surgeon called today and moved his surgery up to TOMORROW! Glad they didn’t push it back! All prayers welcomed and appreciated!!! Mercy hospital here we come!

 

Please pray for my Uncle Mike, tomorrow, if you are able. The surgery is at Noon, central time.

The past few weeks (basically with the time change) we’ve been really good about getting up with time for Joshua to enjoy breakfast with us and for him to get in a reading lesson with Margaret. It’s really nice, actually, because he usually does that in the evening, and it takes up a lot of evening time, which goes by quickly as it is.

This morning, still being in recovery mode, Joshua slept in late and we didn’t roll out of bed until 730. (Well, he did, I stayed in bed, playing with Benedict and Caecilia who came to snuggle). That put us behind a bit, so breakfast wasn’t done until 9:00 and school didn’t start until 930. Since I had a craft project for Caecilia and Benedict, things weren’t as “smooth” as they usually are, so schoolwork did not end until 1130.

On the bright side, Karol did a weeks worth of English, which is good, because he’s behind in the subject (anyone else have a kid who knows the work, but fights the doing of it?) I don’t want to have to do school work on Friday and want to have a break from the O Antiphons through Christmas.

In addition to a normal things I needed (and still need) to do around here, I also needed to go to the dry cleaners to drop off my winter coat (I get to use it this winter! I’m going somewhere cold in December.) and pick up a veggie for Thanksgiving Day, I managed to forget one! So, I loaded up the kids and headed to town. That sucks the life out of me. (Midday outings that is, I don’t know why but they do.)

Now I am resting a bit, with my feet up, then I will clean some more. I know this how was scoured yesterday, but laundry needs to be attended too. And my living room has a smell, and I can’t figure out what it is.

 

 

I have blogged about my Uncle Mike before, he has been fighting lung cancer for about 3 years now. He has a group of super awesome doctors who are doing their best to help him lick the darn cancer, but it keeps coming back.  As it keeps coming back in the same are of the same lung, they have opted to remove his lung and will be doing this on Wednesday, the 21st.  The 21st is also the Feast of The Presentation of Our Lady. I will be offer many Hail Mary’s up for him that day, will you join me?

 

 

Joshua has been home from work since mid-Morning Thursday. We’ve all been struck with a horrible stomach bug. (I’ll spare you the details). I didn’t get out bed on Friday and moved to the couch on Saturday, only because Margaret threw up on our bed. I am thankful that was the only big mess we had to deal with though. Today involved cleaning every surface in the house, doing loads of laundry and opening the windows to air things out. (Would you believe it’s been so cold here we’ve had to turn the heat on. I think when the highs are no more than 55, it’s okay to do so.)

Joshua went to Mass with Karol last night and I went by myself this morning.  I usually enjoy the occasional Mass by myself, but today I really missed my family. Maybe because we aren’t “settled” at our new parish and I only know the pastor, not really anyone else, maybe because I have no idea what to do with my hands during Mass now, or maybe because my kids give me an excuse not to have to open the hymnal when a bad hymn is sung. Or maybe because it was just strange to not have them there.

We’ve been trying to prepare for Thanksgiving in the mean time. I am glad we did a bulk of the prep a few weeks ago and just needed to pick up some fresh item. We are going to brine the bird this year, then cook it on the grill.  I am going to make this and am going to attempt a Cranberry Apple Pecan Pie.  We will of course, have sweet potatoes, rolls, and homemade cranberry sauce. I even bought special, European Soda to drink with dinner on Thanksgiving. (Thank you Publix for stocking a nice selection of food and beverages!)

So there you have it, our long, boring, sick weekend. And guess what? We get another long weekend in just a few days! 🙂 Woot. Let’s hope no one is sick for this one.

 

After we received word that our old van was totaled and the amount of the payout, we started looking around for replacement vans. We already decided that we did not want (or need) a car payment, so we started looking at mini-vans in our price range.  Jacksonville seemed like our best bet for options and price, so we headed that way yesterday. (Thanks to Cassandra for watching the kids!)

Our list was made up of the same year, make, and model that was totaled. We liked the van, it was dependable and we’ve never had any major problems with it.  We headed to the first dealership and looked at, then test drove one that might fit the bill. First we noticed the A/C didn’t work, then I turned on the blower. At one or 2, it was fine, at 3 it was loud, and at 4 it was horrible (and shot dirt at us). That plus a few cosmetic issues, like torn seat pockets, the decision was, no.  We returned to the lot and told the guy the issues we had. He would not budge on the price at all. $5995 (plus a $700 dealer add on??!!). And he wasn’t letting us off the lot. I finally said “let’s go to lunch and talk it over, dear.” and we left. We did not return.

(Lunch was Chipotle, my favorite Mexican place!)

The second place we went to the van was a bit more expensive, but we figured we could work them down a bit. Sadly, they had just “wholesaled” the car that morning, because it had major issues. So, feeling dejected, we drove to the final place. That one had the same year, make, and model, with just about 1000 miles more for $2000 less than our insurance payout. The pictures looked decent, so we decided to look at it. We didn’t even leave the lot. It creaked, the doors sounded horrible, and the final straw, the ashtray didn’t close once I opened it.

Leaving that lot, it was 4:00 and we needed to get home. Joshua said he saw a dealership with a newer model of the van we had on the way to the last one, so we headed back to it. We pulled in and looked at it. Well, I didn’t get out of the car. The salesman came over and immediately asked how much we could pay. Joshua named a price and well, let’s say he met us half way. 🙂 We drove it and it was nice. The newer model year had roll down back windows and is a bit bigger, plus has stow and go seating. (plus side airbags and a shoulder harness seat belt for the middle seat in the very back, something the old one doesn’t have. (Safety, y’all)

So in the end, we ended up with a new, nicer model, same make, for just a bit over what  our insurance check was. Driving it home last night, and then this morning, I really like it. It is very roomy and I think will be much better for future trips.

When we were getting the kids ready this morning (we needed to return the rental) Benedict found the Ron Paul magnet and took it to Joshua to place on the car. Yes, the election is over, yes Ron Paul will probably never be president, but until I get the “I love the Constitution” or “Liberty!!” sticker, Ron Paul will rock the back of the van .